The WHY in my life started in early 2018 when one day I decided to reach out to my father who was absent my whole life. I was 16 years old when I first talked to my father for the very first time in my life. After getting in touch and having a short phone call I realized that I didn’t have to blame my absent father for the outcome of my life ,because for many years I resented and hated not having a father in my life but soon after that phone call I realized that no one is responsible for my life but me. So all that anger I felt I now put towards improving myself and use his absence as motivation into becoming a better man. My overall WHY in life is to become the best man that I can be and to make my mother and future family proud.